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| Welcome to my place of thought hope my thoughts may help you |
Hello my name is Russ (BigDaddy)to those that I chat with on the net in a chat room called Kinky Contacts. This is a page that I am hoping will help others the see the light at the end of the tunnel.This light I am talking about is the one of our emotions and feelings. I am a 27 year old guy that is a person that has a hard time to tell the ones closest to me how much I really care about them and have found by doing little sites like this one people can just send their loved ons here and get their point across about their feelings aswell.I hope you enjoy the pictures I have put up they are on my two children that i love very much and the last one is one of my little family.This first picture is of my son he is 6 years old and smart as a whip and I pray for him to always just try and do the best that he can do. | ||||||||||||||||
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This second picture is my daughter and she is 5 years old.Like all daddy's I am the same my little girl will always be daddy's little girl even when she is older.My daughter is the same as my son smart as a whip and as kids are they both tend to get on each others nerves aswell as get on mommy and daddys too. We as parents know that our children will look to us for guidence and love.So to start with some of my thoughts like the title of my page says. I am doing this page to let my family see how much I really love and care about them and am just not really sure on how to tell them. I also am hoping that my thoughts can help others to show their families the way they feel.Ok now on to the next picture as you scroll down you we see....... | As you read on you may feel tears of joy or you may feel tears of sadness | ||||||||||||||||
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| This is not a page to affend anyone and please look at it with an open mind |
This is a picture of all my little family when we first got together five years ago.We are just a young family as you can see and we like all humans have made mistakes in our lives and I myself have found that as long as we learn from these mistakes we can move on to our next hurdle in life and also prepare for it.We are not always perfect and I know from my experiences in life that I will never be perfect.The most important thought I have is that in relationships you always have to be able to talk and comunicate we your family to solve any problems that may arise from day to day and you need to solve these problems right away as for if you don't the problem will just begin to grow into a bigger one that is harder to fix. I know from my own personal experience too that with the problem getting bigger is just going to cause more stress and frustration and we also cause some very harmful break downs that can hurt our relationships to the point of destruction. I would never wish this sort of pain on my worst enemy. Another thing that I have found to is that you must never be afraid to talk with your mate as this is also a big problem in comunication breakdowns and the day that you are afraid of your partner is the day of a silent war that is full of confussion that can only be solved with facing that fear head on and going to your partner and tell them of this fear and work together at making changes as so you may talk and work out the problem at hand.I am a person of truth and have no fear of telling people the truth but this is a fear we all have including myself. We try so hard ever day of our lives to hide from the truth. Many have different ways of hiding some that I have tried and found that the truth was still there and mostly with a probelm it has gotten bigger. I myself have tried to hide inside a bottle and you feel that after a few drinks you have solved your problem or you are looking at the truth in a different way and things look good for awhile but sooner ot later the real truth comes back and kicks you in the head full force and then you think well no problem I can deal with this and again you hit that bottle just to realize again nothing has changed for the better just the worst. So I what I am trying to says is if we all could start looking and accepting the truth more we may find that our problems may start to grow smaller and our lives will begin to fall in place as they should.These words are just my thoughts and you may be able to see what I am saying or you may also think I am wrong and that is fine with me because as I had said earlier I am only human and I do make mistake and my thought is that we need to learn to look at that mistake that one has made and forgive. You may never forget the mistake but by learning to forgive you may find others are also willing to forgive. I would like to thank everyone that has taken the time to visit my thoughts and read them and please sign my guest book and leave a thought or two of your own and just maybe that thought may help someone else in a time of need.I will leave you with this little last thought.....one that is willing to forgive is one that may be forgiven !!!!! also we all have to look at ourselves and ask a simple question of if I can love myself it will make it easier to love others.Thanx again for taking the time to visit and please feel free to return and read my guestbook in the future and see if there are any thoughts that can help you through a time in need........ View My guestbook  Sign my guestbook | ||||||||||||||||
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